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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Ways to Save a Marriage in Crisis by Dr. Lee Baucom
CENTER FOR MARRIAGE PRESERVATION
DATE:
New York, NY
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Expert Claims Over 90% Success
Rate Saving Marriages.
Breakthrough Method On What To Say To Stop A Crisis.
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Don’t Be A Divorce Statistic.
Studies find that over 50% of married
couples divorce. The case is more dismal with remarriages, with
some estimating 75% lead to divorce.
The shocking truth is that marital
therapy all too often fails.
Here are the facts. Half of all couples
enter therapy to save their marriage and less than 20% report
improvement from therapy. A medical procedure that risky,
would be outlawed!
Understandably a couple in a marriage
crisis are helpless, hopeless, and think divorce is the only alternative.
Introducing a Relationship Coach and
Author that claims to have surprising better statistics.
He claims that his practice saves over 90% of the marriages involved.
In fact, he claims that the vast majority of those saving their
marriage do so with no direct contact with him. These are
amazing statistics, and we have checked that this is indeed the
case.
"We've
been approaching this from the wrong angle" claims Dr. Lee
Baucom. In fact, according to Dr. Baucom, the approach in
the vast majority of books and therapist's offices actually makes
the situation worse!
Dr. Baucom believes that "our
approach is tearing marriages apart that could be saved. In fact,
I think that the vast majority of marriages could be saved with
the right approach and information."
Author Says “I Was Guilty Of
Bad Therapy At One Time”
Marriage therapists, by and large,
received their training in traditional therapy, and either select
marital counseling as a part of this, or choose to specialize
later. According to Baucom, he started the same training,
but quickly posed one question: "why aren't my couples
doing better in their marriage?"
So Dr. Baucom took a step backward,
and began a careful study of what was working and what wasn't.
After over 5 years of trial-and-error and observation, Baucom
concluded why therapy doesn't work. Our most closely held understandings
are way off.
"I realized
that communication skills were not going to help a couple work
toward a successful marriage." In fact, Dr. Baucom
is fond of saying "if I teach you better communication skills,
I will only teach a couple to fight more efficiently."
Realizing that the way he was taught
to do therapy was harming couples, Dr. Baucom changed course.
He introduced his ideas and was astounded
by the results. Rather than a less-than-50% success rate, there
was an over 90% success rate. Couples were not only avoiding
divorce (beating the below 50% statistic), but reporting that
their relationships were transformed! These couples that were
on the brink of divorce were discovering the relationship of their
dreams (beating the less than 20% rate of improvement)!
Anyone Is Capable of
Transforming Their Relationship
Even more incredibly, Dr. Baucom created
techniques that actually transformed relationships when only one
person was even trying! “My typical client is a spouse wanting
to save a relationship the other person has already discarded,”
says Dr. Baucom. Before, if only one person wanted to work
on the relationship, theories said that this was impossible.
But Dr. Baucom holds another view.
“I see relationships like an algebra equation. If one side of
the equation is changed, the other has to change,” claims Dr.
Baucom. Incredibly, Dr. Baucom maintains his better-than-90%
success rate, even if only one spouse starts the process!
But When Is Saving The Marriage
Impossible?
According to Dr. Baucom, he has seen
relationships come back to life after affairs, bankruptcies, dishonesty
and deception, mid-life crises, and just about any other roadblock.
Dr. Baucom reports "I had one couple stop by my office on
the way to the attorney’s office, prepared to sign the final divorce
decree. They are still happily married 5 years later."
In fact, as hard as I pressed, Dr.
Baucom reported that the only line he draws is when actual abuse
is involved. According to Dr. Baucom, the risk is too high to
work on an abusive relationship. But other than that, Dr. Baucom
reports success with couples from almost any situation.
Anatomy Of A Marital Crisis
No marriage crisis appears overnight.
Rather, the crisis slowly builds over time, with one person often
caught completely off-guard, and the other claiming that he or
she is tired of trying and trying, with no change.
Dr. Baucom reports that the damage
is done when one needs to have something change, but the other
seems to be preserving exactly what the spouse wants to change.
For example, there is often a desire for a shift in the power
structure of the relationship, but one person resists making any
change. The other person, who wants the change, becomes
more and more frustrated.
This leads to a pattern where a spouse
suddenly announces that the marriage is over, and the other spouse
is seemingly unaware that there is even a problem. “I don't
know how many times I have heard someone say "sure, it wasn't
the best of relationships, but I didn’t know my partner was so
miserable." Unfortunately, the "not knowing"is
translated as "not caring"and gives proof that the marriage
is over.
"More
marriages die from neglect than anything else" theorizes
Dr. Baucom. Often, it is simply a matter of life getting in the
way. Strangely, something as important as marriage gets
ignored.
On our wedding days, no one expects
their marriage to fail. And when people rate their priorities,
their marital relationship always ranks in the top 4. But
according to research, couples spend on average less than 4 minutes
per day talking about issues that do not include schedules and
the kids.
As neglect sets in, the lack of attention
eats away at the relationship, slowly eroding the capacity of
the couple to form a substantial relationship. At that point,
it is only a matter of time before the issue arises that casts
the marriage into a crisis.
The issue may be another person, a
job change, a shift in life circumstances or stage. When
it comes, one or the other feels the hopelessness of the situation,
and moves to resolve the crisis by getting out of the marriage.
The Stages Of A Crisis
When the crisis is in full swing,
it sometimes takes awhile for the other spouse to respond. Dr.
Baucom uses this fact to create a path back to wholeness.
He states that "too many other programs treat the way back
as one path. But I believe there are 8 distinct paths that
must be addressed differently. What is helpful at one stage can
be destructive, or at least counterproductive, at another stage."
In fact, Dr. Baucom has created a
path for each stage that resolves the crisis. These paths
have been tested and successful for many of Baucom's private coaching
clients.
But Dr. Baucom thinks that it is not
just a matter of knowing what to do at each stage. According to
Dr. Baucom, a great amount of damage is inflicted in the first
bit of the crisis. So knowing what not to do is equally important.
(Hint: Of the top 6 mistakes, number 6 is wasting time.
People procrastinate, hoping things will work themselves out .
But instead, momentum begins to move against them.)
The innocent beginnings of a crisis
(neglect, lack of understanding, etc.) can quickly spin into a
crisis that puts the entire marriage at risk. At this point,
the trajectory of the relationship can become unpredictable. But
the path back is predictable, according to Dr. Baucom. "How
a marriage falls apart, that can happen in a million ways.
But how a marriage recovers, there is only one path back."
And that has been the emphasis of
Dr. Baucom’s work: the path back. Dr. Baucom has isolated the
path from the verge of destruction to the full recovery of a marriage.
"Couples cannot simply get back to where they were when the
marriage got in trouble. The marriage already had the beginnings
of a crisis. Instead, it needs to get to a place where the
marriage is insulated against any future crisis. In other words,
an average marriage isn’t enough in my mind. I want people
to create an exceptional marriage!"
From what we have been able to see,
Dr. Baucom has been able to accomplish this. We are including
a few letters Dr. Baucom showed us from people who have only read
his material. These aren’t even his clients, just those who have
read his materials!
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What Others Are
Saying:
(Just a few of the hundreds
of notes
provided to us, all telling us the same
thing: This Material Works!)
“I
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--Full of thanks, Georgia.”
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You Are Wondering “So What?”
The Center for Marriage Preservation
is constantly on the lookout for persons that are making a difference
in saving marriages. When we find that person, we like to get
their information out there. Our goal is to save as many marriages
as possible (1 million marriages saved is the actual goal we have
taken on). This is one of the most powerful information packages
we have seen!
We have convinced Dr. Baucom to release
his material, for the first time, to a larger audience.
Before, he has only provided his information to his clients and
a few select others. Dr. Baucom was reluctant to release his material
to us because he is clear that he does not want to be a “pop psychology
guru” or have his book seen only as a “pop psychology book.” Instead,
Dr. Baucom wants his material in the hands of those that really
want to make a difference.
 But
we have convinced him to release his ebook to our readers. This
ebook will give you an understanding of what happened to your
marriage, and how to get the marriage of your dreams. This is
not a book about recovery, but about creating a whole new marriage!
(You
can see the Table of Contents by Clicking Here)
This is only a limited release.
This is because of the special deal we have convinced Dr. Baucom
to offer our readers.
Not only is Dr. Baucom offering his
ebook, but he is also offering to special reports that cannot
be found anywhere else but with our offer.
First, Dr. Baucom is offering his
Top 5 Mistakes People Make. This report will help you avoid
making the mistakes that cripple the recovery process in the early
stages of a crisis. This is an incredible report. Our test
readers report that they made those mistakes. We want you to avoid
them.
Also, Dr. Baucom has taken his Stage
Of Crisis Diagnosis and converted it into a very powerful report
that helps you establish where your marriage crisis is, then prescribes
a path to recovery based on that particular stage. Dr. Baucom
has titled this report the “Quick-Start Guide To Saving Your Marriage.”
That is an understatement! This report will make your efforts
immediately effective!
Finally, Dr. Baucom has added a report
he has used in many workshops and presentations: “Three Simple
Secrets To A Successful Marriage.” This report alone has turned
many relationships around. Dr. Baucom has agreed to include
it for our readers.
 EXTRA
SPECIAL SHORT-TERM OFFER: For a very limited time, Dr.
Baucom has agreed to give personal attention to you! Dr. Baucom
is offering an direct email consultation. You will have the opportunity
to get your questions answered, applying the material directly
to your situation. He can only accept 45
18
email consultations before his schedule is overwhelmed.
We are very excited about the offer!
For the first time, and for a very limited time, Dr. Baucom is
offering the Ebook, the Top 5 Mistakes Report,
the Quick-Start Guide, the Three Simple Secrets
Report, and the Email Consultation.
This bundle is the answer to anyone
wanting to save their marriage. Dr. Baucom’s techniques and approach
works, even if your spouse has already given up. It ends up being
Relationship Judo, you end up using the negative energy to turn
the relationship around.
Now, we ask you to help us!
By saving your own marriage, we will be another marriage closer
to meeting our goal of saving 1 million marriages. We have arranged
to make this package available to you,
But You Must Make The First Move
The only question you need to answer
is: Are you ready to save your marriage? Are you ready to make
a change for the positive? Are you ready to discover the true
secrets to saving your marriage?
The average cost of a divorce in America
is $20,000. This only accounts for the legal costs and the financial
consequences. It does not include the emotional and familial
costs. That cost is much, much higher.
Study after study is showing that
children are affected by divorce. And individuals rarely
report a higher level of life satisfaction after a divorce. Simply
put, divorce creates many more problems than it could possibly
solve.
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 THE
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The
Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.
The
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How
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How
to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.
What
to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your
marriage!
Why
“hard work” on the relationship isn’t always the answer.
How
marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage’s
future.
Why
“low mood therapy” is destined for failure and how “ high mood
relating” makes the difference.
How
to move beyond emotions and take action!
How
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matters.
Why
true intimacy is a lot closer than you think-- and how to get
there!
What
the TIE Elements of Communication are, and how
they can transform your communication.
How
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What
the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform
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Why arguing is a waste of time
-- and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.
How
to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
Why
power is so destructive to relationships and how to
change it.
How
to deal with problems involving sex or money.
How
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Much,
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In
short, how to have the marriage of your dreams.
But only if you take advantage
of this very special and exclusive offer. You have to make a choice
to take control of your destiny.
This is not a “fluff” book to read
on the beach, then set on your shelf. This is a hard-hitting,
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today. Don’t waste another year, month, week, day, or even minute
hoping that something will change.
Take Control Of Your Relationship’s
Destiny!
It has been said that the definition of insanity
is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different
outcome. Yet this is exactly what most of us do in our relationships.
We don’t make a permanent change, but try cosmetic changes, really
doing the same thing over and over again.
You can discover the secrets to making a permanent
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of your marriage’s future. Don’t stay on autopilot. Shift
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You Don’t Have To Decide Right Now
Dr. Baucom has agreed to take all the risk.
You take none. If you act now, Dr. Baucom is guaranteeing
the results of his material. In other words, if his material does
not work for you, Dr. Baucom is willing to give you a full refund.
This is a full, 100% money-back guarantee. There is absolutely
no risk to you!
Really, Dr. Baucom has only insisted on one provision:
you must use the material in good faith for 1 month. You have
up to two months to try the material and discover the transformational
capacity of this information! This is an incredible gift
for you, if you act now.
You can’t lose with this offer. You have
everything to gain, and nothing to lose. If you save your relationship,
you have a priceless gift. If you end up in the few percentage
of people that Dr. Baucom cannot help, you get a full refund.
The risk is entirely his.
(One exception: if you use the personal
consultation, you void your money-back guarantee. Up until then,
you are guaranteed a full refund)
If you cannot decide, we urge you to take the
risk, and see what can happen to your marriage. Take the
first step to save your marriage by Clicking
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you will be taken to a SSL (Secured-Socket Layer) Protected page
that requires a small amount of information. This page is
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Clickbank can accept all major credit cards,
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After the purchase is confirmed, you will be automatically
sent to a special page set up by Dr. Baucom to allow you to download
your documents for IMMEDIATE ACCESS.
That’s right. You can start the process,
and in less than 10 minutes, you will be reading the information
you need to start saving your marriage, regardless of what time
it is, day or night, and regardless of where in the world you
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Don’t wait another second. It is time to begin
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Don’t come back later to discover
that this very special package has been removed, no longer available
to you. Dr. Baucom’s time is limited, and we only have permission
to make this offer to you until he calls a stop to the sales.
When that happens, your opportunity to grab this information will
be over.
It is your chance to take control
of your relationship’s future, and save your marriage, even if
you are the only one who wants to.
“Can This Really Work?”
We have verified the results that
Dr. Baucom has reported. We have verified the letters from people
who have used the material. We have worked to get you as
much information from Dr. Baucom as is possible. And we have gained
you the opportunity to receive a consultation with Dr. Baucom.
There are no guarantees in life, but
Dr. Baucom has even guaranteed the results. In short, yes, this
can really work. Dr. Baucom has been offering help to couples
in trouble for over 15 years. He has used these same techniques
to be happily married for over 18 years.
But, as they say, “the proof is in
the pudding.” You have to take the next action to discover how
this material can save your marriage. When your marriage is saved,
please let us know, so that we can add you to our list of marriages
that have been saved.
Best wishes to you in your venture
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--W.W. Adams
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