Ways to Save a Marriage in Crisis by Dr. Lee Baucom
New York, NY


Expert Claims Over 90% Success
Rate Saving Marriages.
Breakthrough Method On What To Say To Stop A Crisis.

Don’t Be A Divorce Statistic.

Studies find that over 50% of married couples divorce. The case is more dismal with remarriages, with some estimating 75% lead to divorce.  

The shocking truth is that marital therapy all too often fails.

Here are the facts. Half of all couples enter therapy to save their marriage and less than 20% report improvement from therapy. A medical procedure that risky, would be outlawed!

Understandably a couple in a marriage crisis are helpless, hopeless, and think divorce is the only alternative.

Introducing a Relationship Coach and Author that claims to have surprising better statistics.   He claims that his practice saves over 90% of the marriages involved.  In fact, he claims that the vast majority of those saving their marriage do so with no direct contact with him.  These are amazing statistics, and we have checked that this is indeed the case.

"We've been approaching this from the wrong angle" claims Dr. Lee Baucom.  In fact, according to Dr. Baucom, the approach in the vast majority of books and therapist's offices actually makes the situation worse!

Dr. Baucom believes that "our approach is tearing marriages apart that could be saved. In fact, I think that the vast majority of marriages could be saved with the right approach and information."

Author Says “I Was Guilty Of
Bad Therapy At One Time”

Marriage therapists, by and large, received their training in traditional therapy, and either select marital counseling as a part of this, or choose to specialize later.   According to Baucom, he started the same training, but quickly posed one question:  "why aren't my couples doing better in their marriage?"

So Dr. Baucom took a step backward, and began a careful study of what was working and what wasn't. After over 5 years of trial-and-error and observation, Baucom concluded why therapy doesn't work. Our most closely held understandings are way off.

"I realized that communication skills were not going to help a couple work toward a successful marriage."  In fact, Dr. Baucom is fond of saying "if I teach you better communication skills, I will only teach a couple to fight more efficiently."

Realizing that the way he was taught to do therapy was harming couples, Dr. Baucom changed course. 

He introduced his ideas and was astounded by the results. Rather than a less-than-50% success rate, there was an over 90% success rate.  Couples were not only avoiding divorce (beating the below 50% statistic), but reporting that their relationships were transformed! These couples that were on the brink of divorce were discovering the relationship of their dreams (beating the less than 20% rate of improvement)!

Anyone Is Capable of
Transforming Their Relationship

Even more incredibly, Dr. Baucom created techniques that actually transformed relationships when only one person was even trying!  “My typical client is a spouse wanting to save a relationship the other person has already discarded,” says Dr. Baucom.  Before, if only one person wanted to work on the relationship, theories said that this was impossible.

But Dr. Baucom holds another view. “I see relationships like an algebra equation. If one side of the equation is changed, the other has to change,” claims Dr. Baucom.  Incredibly, Dr. Baucom maintains his better-than-90% success rate, even if only one spouse starts the process!

 But When Is Saving The Marriage Impossible?

According to Dr. Baucom, he has seen relationships come back to life after affairs, bankruptcies, dishonesty and deception, mid-life crises, and just about any other roadblock. Dr. Baucom reports "I had one couple stop by my office on the way to the attorney’s office, prepared to sign the final divorce decree.  They are still happily married 5 years later."

In fact, as hard as I pressed, Dr. Baucom reported that the only line he draws is when actual abuse is involved. According to Dr. Baucom, the risk is too high to work on an abusive relationship. But other than that, Dr. Baucom reports success with couples from almost any situation.

Anatomy Of A Marital Crisis

No marriage crisis appears overnight.  Rather, the crisis slowly builds over time, with one person often caught completely off-guard, and the other claiming that he or she is tired of trying and trying, with no change.

Dr. Baucom reports that the damage is done when one needs to have something change, but the other seems to be preserving exactly what the spouse wants to change.  For example, there is often a desire for a shift in the power structure of the relationship, but one person resists making any change.  The other person, who wants the change, becomes more and more frustrated.

This leads to a pattern where a spouse suddenly announces that the marriage is over, and the other spouse is seemingly unaware that there is even a problem.  “I don't know how many times I have heard someone say "sure, it wasn't the best of relationships, but I didn’t know my partner was so miserable."  Unfortunately, the "not knowing"is translated as "not caring"and gives proof that the marriage is over.

"More marriages die from neglect than anything else" theorizes Dr. Baucom. Often, it is simply a matter of life getting in the way.  Strangely, something as important as marriage gets ignored. 

On our wedding days, no one expects their marriage to fail.  And when people rate their priorities, their marital relationship always ranks in the top 4.  But according to research, couples spend on average less than 4 minutes per day talking about issues that do not include schedules and the kids.

As neglect sets in, the lack of attention eats away at the relationship, slowly eroding the capacity of the couple to form a substantial relationship. At that point, it is only a matter of time before the issue arises that casts the marriage into a crisis. 

The issue may be another person, a job change, a shift in life circumstances or stage.  When it comes, one or the other feels the hopelessness of the situation, and moves to resolve the crisis by getting out of the marriage.

The Stages Of A Crisis

When the crisis is in full swing, it sometimes takes awhile for the other spouse to respond. Dr. Baucom uses this fact to create a path back to wholeness.  He states that "too many other programs treat the way back as one path.  But I believe there are 8 distinct paths that must be addressed differently. What is helpful at one stage can be destructive, or at least counterproductive, at another stage."

In fact, Dr. Baucom has created a path for each stage that resolves the crisis.  These paths have been tested and successful for many of Baucom's private coaching clients. 

But Dr. Baucom thinks that it is not just a matter of knowing what to do at each stage. According to Dr. Baucom, a great amount of damage is inflicted in the first bit of the crisis. So knowing what not to do is equally important.  (Hint:  Of the top 6 mistakes, number 6 is wasting time.  People procrastinate, hoping things will work themselves out . But instead, momentum begins to move against them.)

The innocent beginnings of a crisis (neglect, lack of understanding, etc.) can quickly spin into a crisis that puts the entire marriage at risk.  At this point, the trajectory of the relationship can become unpredictable. But the path back is predictable, according to Dr. Baucom. "How a marriage falls apart, that can happen in a million ways.  But how a marriage recovers, there is only one path back."

And that has been the emphasis of Dr. Baucom’s work: the path back. Dr. Baucom has isolated the path from the verge of destruction to the full recovery of a marriage.  "Couples cannot simply get back to where they were when the marriage got in trouble.  The marriage already had the beginnings of a crisis.  Instead, it needs to get to a place where the marriage is insulated against any future crisis. In other words, an average marriage isn’t enough in my mind.  I want people to create an exceptional marriage!"

From what we have been able to see, Dr. Baucom has been able to accomplish this. We are including a few letters Dr. Baucom showed us from people who have only read his material. These aren’t even his clients, just those who have read his materials!

What Others Are Saying:
(Just a few of the hundreds of notes
provided to us, all telling us the same
thing: This Material Works!)

    “I have been reading the first few chapters and am very happy and relieved to find such a terrific resource. It really fits with  the direction I’ve been taking, personally and with clients.”
                                                               --Sally F., Therapist

    “I ordered your book and read the whole thing in a day.  I   loved it!  Thanks so much for the resource!”
                                                               --Chris N.

    “What a turn-around! Our relationship is 180 degrees reversed and moving in the RIGHT direction!  Thank you so much!”
                                                               --Nancy T.

    “My marriage has been in trouble for years.  I’ve read the   other books. . . your ideas are radically different from the others.  I’ve never read anything like it. Now, things are improving. I finally have hope!”
                                                               --Brad R.

    “Our marriage is back on track!  What an incredible gift.  Thank you so much.”
                                                               --Sue R.

    “I sat and read last night. I read from about 7pm to 12am. I     am amazed! After reading, I have a whole new outlook on    our marriage. After reading, I am prepared to make the necessary changes and shifts in order to have the marriage I've always wanted.”
                                                             --Mary Beth M.

    I recently purchased your package, save the marriage and spent the last week reading it. I don't know how to express my how I feel about it other than to just say wow ! I was convinced within the very first chapter as I could see the truth of it in my own life and relationship.
    Since  I found your ebook, it not only affirmed my decision to stay, but helped me to see things in a clearer perspective. I have ADHD and your book has helped me more than any  DR., book or medication ever could in dealing with my problem. your book has helped me in all my relationships    with friends, coworkers, family, my boss, and most importantly with my children. I cannot say yet that it has saved my relationship with my former wife as of yet but it has helped tremendously. She said she plans to be with me.
    This book is for everyone single or married whether they are pursuing an intimate relationship or not. even if it doesn't   save your current relationship it will help change your perspective on life making relationships present and future more fulfilling.”
                                                         --Anthony J.

    “For the record let me just say that your book is the most sensible, real self help book of any kind that I have read.
    These things that you talk about in your book are real, so simple---THEY JUST MAKE SENSE!!
    My relationship with my husband has gotten so much better !! thank you, thank you thank you”
                                                         --Robin R.

    “I'm 41 years old and my husband has recently told me that   he wanted out of the marriage and he actually left a few days later, after 21 years of marriage. After the initial shock wore  off and I was able to think straight, I decided to seek counseling. I made an appointment and the same day I purchased your ebook. I had already decided that I would try to hang on. On the day of my appointment they had to reschedule. That same evening, he came by to sign papers   to list our house for sale and I convinced him to give me and the marriage another chance. I had to wing it with your  thoughts in my head and my heart in my hand. Many, many thanks for your ebook. I know it will be a long and hard road  but he and our marriage are worth it.
                                                       --Full of thanks, Georgia.”   


You Are Wondering “So What?”

The Center for Marriage Preservation is constantly on the lookout for persons that are making a difference in saving marriages. When we find that person, we like to get their information out there. Our goal is to save as many marriages as possible (1 million marriages saved is the actual goal we have taken on). This is one of the most powerful information packages we have seen!

We have convinced Dr. Baucom to release his material, for the first time, to a larger audience.  Before, he has only provided his information to his clients and a few select others. Dr. Baucom was reluctant to release his material to us because he is clear that he does not want to be a “pop psychology guru” or have his book seen only as a “pop psychology book.” Instead, Dr. Baucom wants his material in the hands of those that really want to make a difference.

SaveTheMarrage2_2But we have convinced him to release his ebook to our readers. This ebook will give you an understanding of what happened to your marriage, and how to get the marriage of your dreams. This is not a book about recovery, but about creating a whole new marriage! (You can see the Table of Contents by Clicking Here)

This is only a limited release.  This is because of the special deal we have convinced Dr. Baucom to offer our readers.

Not only is Dr. Baucom offering his ebook, but he is also offering to special reports that cannot be found anywhere else but with our offer.

First, Dr. Baucom is offering his Top 5 Mistakes People Make.  This report will help you avoid making the mistakes that cripple the recovery process in the early stages of a crisis.  This is an incredible report. Our test readers report that they made those mistakes. We want you to avoid them.

Also, Dr. Baucom has taken his Stage Of Crisis Diagnosis and converted it into a very powerful report that helps you establish where your marriage crisis is, then prescribes a path to recovery based on that particular stage.  Dr. Baucom has titled this report the “Quick-Start Guide To Saving Your Marriage.” That is an understatement!  This report will make your efforts immediately effective!

Finally, Dr. Baucom has added a report he has used in many workshops and presentations: “Three Simple Secrets To A Successful Marriage.” This report alone has turned many relationships around.  Dr. Baucom has agreed to include it for our readers.

arrow17EXTRA SPECIAL SHORT-TERM OFFER:  For a very limited time, Dr. Baucom has agreed to give personal attention to you! Dr. Baucom is offering an direct email consultation. You will have the opportunity to get your questions answered, applying the material directly to your situation.  He can only accept 45 18 email consultations before his schedule is overwhelmed.arrow18

We are very excited about the offer! For the first time, and for a very limited time, Dr. Baucom is offering the Ebook, the Top 5 Mistakes Report, the Quick-Start Guide, the Three Simple Secrets Report, and the Email Consultation

This bundle is the answer to anyone wanting to save their marriage. Dr. Baucom’s techniques and approach works, even if your spouse has already given up. It ends up being Relationship Judo, you end up using the negative energy to turn the relationship around.

Now, we ask you to help us!  By saving your own marriage, we will be another marriage closer to meeting our goal of saving 1 million marriages. We have arranged to make this package available to you,

But You Must Make The First Move

The only question you need to answer is: Are you ready to save your marriage? Are you ready to make a change for the positive? Are you ready to discover the true secrets to saving your marriage?

The average cost of a divorce in America is $20,000. This only accounts for the legal costs and the financial consequences.  It does not include the emotional and familial costs.  That cost is much, much higher.

Study after study is showing that children are affected by divorce.  And individuals rarely report a higher level of life satisfaction after a divorce. Simply put, divorce creates many more problems than it could possibly solve.

Don’t become a statistic.  Take advantage of this offer by Clicking Here.  This special offer is only available here, and only for a limited time. Don’t miss out on saving your marriage.

You Are About To Discover:

dotpoint4THE secret to saving your marriage, starting today.
dotpoint4The Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.
dotpoint4The true secrets of healthy, stable, loving marriages.
dotpoint4How to assess the stage of your crisis (there are 8).
dotpoint4How to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.
dotpoint4What to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your marriage!
dotpoint4Why “hard work” on the relationship isn’t always the answer.
dotpoint4How marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage’s future.
dotpoint4Why “low mood therapy” is destined for failure and how “ high mood relating” makes the difference.
dotpoint4How to move beyond emotions and take action!
dotpoint4How to find the North Star of your relationship, and why it matters.
dotpoint4Why true intimacy is a lot closer than you think-- and how to get there!
dotpoint4What the TIE Elements of Communication are, and how they can transform your communication.
dotpoint4How to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!
What the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.
dotpoint4Why arguing is a waste of time -- and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.
dotpoint4How to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.
dotpoint4How to deal with problems involving sex or money.
How to make paradigm shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.
dotpoint4Much, much more about how to transform your relationship.
In short, how to have the marriage of your dreams.

But only if you take advantage of this very special and exclusive offer. You have to make a choice to take control of your destiny.

This is not a “fluff” book to read on the beach, then set on your shelf. This is a hard-hitting, direct book about what to do to save your marriage, beginning today. Don’t waste another year, month, week, day, or even minute hoping that something will change.

Take Control Of Your Relationship’s Destiny!

It has been said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different outcome.  Yet this is exactly what most of us do in our relationships. We don’t make a permanent change, but try cosmetic changes, really doing the same thing over and over again.

You can discover the secrets to making a permanent change with Dr. Baucom’s material.  You can take back control of your marriage’s future.  Don’t stay on autopilot. Shift your relationship to a new level.

You Don’t Have To Decide Right Nowguarantee

Dr. Baucom has agreed to take all the risk.  You take none.  If you act now, Dr. Baucom is guaranteeing the results of his material. In other words, if his material does not work for you, Dr. Baucom is willing to give you a full refund. This is a full, 100% money-back guarantee. There is absolutely no risk to you!

Really, Dr. Baucom has only insisted on one provision: you must use the material in good faith for 1 month. You have up to two months to try the material and discover the transformational capacity of this information!  This is an incredible gift for you, if you act now.

You can’t lose with this offer.  You have everything to gain, and nothing to lose. If you save your relationship, you have a priceless gift. If you end up in the few percentage of people that Dr. Baucom cannot help, you get a full refund. The risk is entirely his.

(One exception:  if you use the personal consultation, you void your money-back guarantee. Up until then, you are guaranteed a full refund)

If you cannot decide, we urge you to take the risk, and see what can happen to your marriage.  Take the first step to save your marriage by Clicking Here.

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After clicking the purchase link, you will be taken to a SSL (Secured-Socket Layer) Protected page that requires a small amount of information.  This page is hosted by Clickbank, the safest payment processing company on the internet. (In fact, we will never even see your payment information.)

Clickbank can accept all major credit cards, can access a Paypal account, or can process an online check.

After the purchase is confirmed, you will be automatically sent to a special page set up by Dr. Baucom to allow you to download your documents for IMMEDIATE ACCESS.

That’s right.  You can start the process, and in less than 10 minutes, you will be reading the information you need to start saving your marriage, regardless of what time it is, day or night, and regardless of where in the world you are located.

Don’t wait another second. It is time to begin to save your marriage. Dr. Baucom’s powerful information will give you the exclusive information you need to begin saving your marriage THIS SECOND!


Don’t come back later to discover that this very special package has been removed, no longer available to you.  Dr. Baucom’s time is limited, and we only have permission to make this offer to you until he calls a stop to the sales. When that happens, your opportunity to grab this information will be over.

It is your chance to take control of your relationship’s future, and save your marriage, even if you are the only one who wants to.

“Can This Really Work?”

We have verified the results that Dr. Baucom has reported. We have verified the letters from people who have used the material.  We have worked to get you as much information from Dr. Baucom as is possible. And we have gained you the opportunity to receive a consultation with Dr. Baucom.

There are no guarantees in life, but Dr. Baucom has even guaranteed the results. In short, yes, this can really work.  Dr. Baucom has been offering help to couples in trouble for over 15 years. He has used these same techniques to be happily married for over 18 years.

But, as they say, “the proof is in the pudding.” You have to take the next action to discover how this material can save your marriage. When your marriage is saved, please let us know, so that we can add you to our list of marriages that have been saved.

Best wishes to you in your venture to save your marriage.  Now,

Click Here To Save Your Marriage

--W.W. Adams



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