TABLE OF CONTENTS For Ebook

Introduction

Chapter 1
Why Traditional Couple Therapy Fails
The Faulty Assumption
An Example
The Doomed Idea
If Not Couple Therapy, Then What?

Chapter 2
Moving From
You & Me To WE
Controlled/Controlling
Under/Overfunctioning
Power Struggles
An Exercise
The Physics of Relating
An Exercise

Chapter 3
Recipe of a Successful Marriage
Accurate Perception
Clear Communication
Right Action
The Interplay
Pulling It Together
An Exercise
Exercise:  Me, You, WE

Chapter 4
Finding The North Star
Of Your Relationship
False North Stars
Finding A True
North Star
An Exercise
 

Chapter 5
3 Simple Secrets to a Successful Marriage
Secret #1
Secret #2
Secret #3

Chapter 6
Create an Upward Cycle
Shifting Momentum
An Instant Shift
An Exercise

Chapter 7
Don’t Ask Yourself Whether You Are Still In Love
Why Not Emotions?
“So, What Should I Do?”
An ExerciseWhen the Emotions are Missing
Reconnecting With The Emotions
An Exercise

Chapter 8
When Emotions Are Amiss
Intimacy & Abandonment
Between The Fears
Dealing With The Mix
Understanding Anger
An Exercise

Chapter 9
We All Have A Paradigm
So What’s the Tie-In? 
The Paradigm Problem
A Paradigm of People’s Paradigms
An Exercise
Escaping the Paradigm Trap
We Are All Doing The Best We Can!
We All Operate From Our Own Perspectives
Doing TO
You vs. Doing FOR Themselves
What This Doesn’t Mean

Chapter 10
Boundaries:  Where You Begin and End
Boundaries and Standards
Setting Boundaries in the Relationship
Why Boundaries Are Important For You
Boundaries and Standards Exercise
Boundaries Of The Relationship

Chapter 11
The Practices of Marriage
Practice #1
Practice #2
Practice #3

Chapter 12
The Path to Intimacy
Stage #1
Stage #2
Stage #3
Stage #4

Chapter 13
High Mood Relating
Focus on Options

Chapter 14
Living a Relationship In the Present

Chapter 15
Sex Is About WE
The Reality of Sexual Issues in Marriage
The Energy of Sexuality
A Different Approach

Chapter 16
Money, Power & WE
Freedom Versus Security
The Role of Money in a Couple’s Life
An Alternative View
Keys To A New Perspective
An Exercise

Chapter 17
Don’t Just Grow; EVOLVE!
The Current View of Relationships
A Paradigm View of Relationships

Epilogue
Where Do I Go From Here?
Relationship Coaching
Save the Marriage
Teleclasses
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